Getting married should be one of the most enjoyable experiences of your life, but for many planning an event of this size (not to mention this cost!) can prove daunting.
Let our guide to some of the key decisions, our at-a-glance timetable and our brief guide to wedding etiquette help make planning your wedding day an experience to savour.
Guide to Key Decisions
Once you've finished basking in the glow of engagement, you'll find it very hard to get anything accomplished without a detailed wedding budget. This will give you an outline of what you should spend on each item, so as to ensure you don't spend more than you intend to overall. Here's how to create a wedding budget that you can afford.
Although tradition says that the bride's parents pay for the whole thing, this is frequently untrue for today's couples. If you can pay for the whole event yourselves, then that’s great . If you want your families to help you out, or pay for it all, you should have a frank discussion with them about it. You might say something like "we’re starting to plan our wedding, and we wanted to ask you if you might want to contribute." You should be prepared for questions, such as "How much do you think the whole thing will cost".
The average wedding cost now is between £15,000 - £20,000 (this figure includes the average cost of the honeymoon and first night’s hotel), but it’s best to base your wedding budget on the funds available to you.
There are several options:
Parents can say that they are contributing a specific amount, you then decide your budget and make up the difference yourselves.
Parents can say that they want to pay for specific items such as the wedding dress, catering or flowers. .
You can set a budget and then ask to split it evenly. This is particularly a good solution for divided families. For example, the couple, the mother of the bride, the father of the bride, and the groom's parents will each contribute the same amount into the pot.
Working Out a Basic Wedding Budget
Start off by thinking about how many guests you would like to invite – this figure will be affected by several factors – the size of each family, numbers of parental friends/friends, even the capacity of the venue can all have an impact on your total number of guests. Look at the list below and remove anything that you know you definitely won’t need/want.
Then put in as many of the figures that you know, as accurately as you can, and you should start to build up a clearer picture of where the budget could end up.
Bridesmaids and Attendance Budget
Bridesmaid/Best Man, Ushers Gifts
Best Man Outfit
Page Boy Outfits
Mother of the Bride/Groom/Thank You Flowers
Civil / Church Fees
Honeymoon Expenses Budget
First Night Hotel
Wedding Reception Expenses
Once you've set a budget, and you’re confident it’s realistic then stick to it!
Choosing Your Venue
Of course, we believe that Inglewood Manor really is the ultimate romantic wedding venue, but it’s really important that it’s the perfect fit for your big day.
Once you have decided to get married, choosing the venue and booking your Church or Registrars should be one of the first items on your to-do list. This is because many people choose to book the venue early (sometimes years in advance), and so securing your preferred date can be quite a challenge. Once the venue and the Church or Registrars are booked, many of the other items on the to-do list can wait a while.